You are high quality, high touch, and exquisite. And still — after years in this business — it has rough edges. More complicated than it has to be. The income swings and you don't fully trust it. And the potent, powerful version of you that shows up with clients quietly shrinks when it comes to selling. The dualities are real. And they are costing you.
Here we do not chase magic bullets or do things the way other people do them. Everything is custom-made and fully tailored. We go deep into your blueprint — your Human Design, astrology, identity, energetics, business and data — locate the bottlenecks, and break free from the loops and patterns that have been running the show. Conscious and subconscious. Strategic and energetic. All of it, at the same time. Because one layer fixed while the others stay broken is just a more expensive version of stuck.
See How It WorksNot passion and devotion — which would be delicious — but your nervous system running the show. Finances and visibility trigger your deepest wounds. So as much as you are exceptional with clients, with your own business the survival version steps in.
Revenue affects your mood. Your mood affects your revenue.
You run high-proximity, high-integrity, high-quality. Mainly 1:1 and small groups. You are not trying to scale through volume — you want fewer clients, deeper work, premium pricing, and a business genuinely built around your life.
And you are done with a practice that has quietly become too complicated for the life you actually want to live.
"It's time to step fully into the powerful version and soothe the little girl."— Silja Thor
"The problem was never the funnel. It was that your identity, nervous system, and business systems have never been stabilised at the same time."
Four layers. One destination — a boutique practice built entirely around your life.
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The identity and frequency behind selling that actually works. Not strategy — the actual thing. Who you are when you sell, and what changes when you get that right. Eleven drops. Private Telegram. Join anytime.
Join The Selling Season — FreeA clean, simple ecosystem. Every entry point leads to the same destination — a boutique practice that is exquisite, regulated, and built entirely around your life.
Five women. Five completely different situations. One methodology. What changes is not just the revenue — it is the woman running the business.
This is what regulated selling looks like. Not white-knuckling through a breakdown — using it as data, reaching for support immediately, and moving from a place of grounded certainty rather than panic. A €20k+ month followed shortly after.
"Every word Silja says makes a massive difference. And the best part — it's all taught in a very simple, understandable way. Priceless."
"Silja has an incredible gift for quickly seeing exactly what your business needs to thrive. Her clarity and guidance are unmatched — working with her is truly transformative."
"Working with Silja has been one of the most consequential decisions I made for my business. Clarity, structure, and keeping the human at the centre."
"After working with Silja, your life and business will never be the same again — for the better. She walks her talk and is a living role model for ways to run a business with ease and flow."
"I was frustrated and even having thoughts of going back to my job. Today my relationship with my business is stronger than ever — and last year was our biggest revenue growth yet."
"You are a mentor who stabilises people by seeing them so clearly and so completely that they finally trust what they already know."
I built the complicated version of this business first. Nine startups across five countries — sold companies, been bankrupt, scaled. I know exactly what it costs when a business is running you instead of the other way around. In energy, in presence, in your body, in your relationships. I lived it.
I run a boutique practice now. Two groups of twelve. Maximum 24 women at a time. Six weeks off a year. Built around my life — around slow mornings, around my daughter India, around padel and weightlifting and kayaking and the kind of presence that is only possible when the business is not consuming you.
"I do not wait for clients to arrive at the insight. I meet them there before they know they are going."
I am not a hand-holder. I am not a therapist. I am the mentor you work with when you already have a foundation and you are ready to build the whole city on top of it. Ruthlessly kind. Precisely honest. Completely grounded.