For Established Women Entrepreneurs
You've built something real — the clients, the revenue, the reputation. And somehow the business still runs you — not the other way around. That is what we fix.
Real.
Raw.
Regulated.
Rich.
This is not a business programme dressed in soft language. It is precise, honest, grounded work — on your identity, your nervous system, and the systems that make income predictable. In that order. Always.
See How It WorksThe Methodology
Every woman who works with me moves through four layers — not as a programme to consume, but as a lived experience that rebuilds how you run your business and how you inhabit your life.
The woman comes first. We regulate the nervous system, reset the identity, and build the internal foundation that all strategy depends on. No amount of tactics fixes a dysregulated woman.
Relationship-based, energetically clean sales that feel like service. The Courting Method, conversion events, taster experiences — three systems that bring in consistent income every month.
Most businesses are too complicated. We cut everything that costs energy without producing results and rebuild around what actually works — fewer offers, clearer positioning, calmer delivery.
CEO rhythms, monthly planning, client systems and the operational backbone that means your business runs whether you are in full power or going through life. Structure is freedom.
The Pattern
Not in a passion way. In a nervous-system way. Revenue affects your mood and your mood affects your revenue. You've outgrown the old paradigm — and somewhere deep down, you know this phase should already be over.
The Root Cause
Your identity, nervous system, and business systems have never been stabilised at the same time. So income stays emotional. The business stays personal. It doesn't resolve with insight, hacks, or more strategy. It resolves with the right foundation.
"She doesn't have a sales problem. She has a stability problem. And stability lives in the identity, not the strategy."
— Silja Thor
Every Offer Has One Job
Each offer builds on the last. Whether you start with a free audit or jump straight into the container — every step leads to a business genuinely built around your life.
The Work is Real
Five women. Five completely different situations. One methodology. What changes is not just the revenue — it is the woman running the business.
Her income kept restarting every time something felt slow. She had the audience, the skills, the content. What was missing was certainty — and the system to compound what was already working.
Revenue grew more than 400% in one year — while reducing 1:1 coaching load and launching fewer times. The business moved from founder-led to CEO-led, without burning out in the process.
Starting fresh in a new country with no local client base. Within months he invoiced his first client. Now booked well ahead with €20k+ months — and a business built entirely around his strengths.
Strong months that kept collapsing. The pattern was clear once we named it: it was never a strategy problem. We rebuilt the identity, the systems, and the financial floor. Wobbles now last days, not months.
After a long season of inconsistency and eroded confidence, her business responded almost immediately once her identity stabilised and simple systems were built. She stopped carrying the business in her nervous system.
When women finish, most come back. Not because they didn't get results — because the work compounds, the momentum is real, and they don't want to lose what they've built.
In Real Time
This is what regulated selling looks like. Not white-knuckling through a breakdown — using it as data, reaching for support immediately, and moving from a place of grounded certainty rather than panic.
In Their Words
"Every word Silja says makes a massive difference. And the best part — it's all taught in a very simple, understandable way. Priceless."
"Silja has an incredible gift for quickly seeing exactly what your business needs to thrive. Her clarity and guidance are unmatched — working with her is truly transformative."
"Working with Silja has been one of the most consequential decisions I made for my business. Clarity, structure, and keeping the human at the centre."
"After working with Silja, your life and business will never be the same again — for the better. She walks her talk and is a living role model for ways to run a business with ease and flow."
"I was frustrated and even having thoughts of going back to my job. Today my relationship with my business is stronger than ever — and last year was our biggest revenue growth yet."
"You are a mentor who stabilises people by seeing them so clearly and so completely that they finally trust what they already know."
"Build your business around your life — not the other way around."
Your Mentor
Icelandic-born · Based in Andalusia · Nine Businesses · Five Countries
I built the complicated version of this business first. Nine startups across five countries — sold companies, been bankrupt, scaled. I know exactly what it costs when a business is running you instead of the other way around — in energy, in presence, in your body, in your relationships. I lived it.
My methodology is simple: Stabilise the Woman. Systemise the Business. In that order. Always. Because no amount of strategy fixes what is happening underneath when your nervous system and identity are not settled at the same time.
I am not a hand-holder. I am not a therapist. I am the mentor you work with when you already have a foundation and you are ready to build the whole city on top of it. Ruthlessly kind. Precisely honest. Completely grounded.
Single mother to India · Padel · Weightlifting · Kayaking · Slow mornings as a non-negotiable · Degree in Middle Eastern History & Politics · Systems thinker · Straight talker
Easy to Find. Hard to Access.
If something in you recognises this — that is the signal. Apply for a strategy call and let's find out if this is the right room for you.
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